Dreaming of travel is one thing, but actually taking the steps towards a solo trip can be daunting, especially for someone who struggles with anxiety like myself. I thrive on plans, but the thought of actually making them gives me anxiety. And yes, I see the double entendre…

The Decision to Explore Puerto Rico Solo

The decision to plan my solo adventure to Puerto Rico has become a journey of pushing boundaries, and embracing the allure of the unknown. Though I anticipated the road wouldn’t be easy, every step taken to transform this dream into reality has blended excitement and a healthy dose of nervous anticipation.

Navigating Choices and Overcoming Anxiety

As I sat down to purchase my tickets, I agonized over minute differences in prices and takeoff/landing times. The abundance of choices overwhelmed me,  prompting me to shut my computer before buying my tickets. The following day, I knew I needed to decide, as the prices were only likely to increase.

Unmasking Anxiety: Beyond Dates and Prices

It wasn’t until I had wasted another two hours examining flights that I realized my anxiety had nothing to do with dates/times or incremental price differences. My anxiety lay in the knowledge that purchasing this ticket would mean finalizing what had until then only been ideas in my head.

A Reminder of Purpose and Courage

Fortunately, my dedicated efforts in building this site served as a crucial reminder of my purpose. Without it, I might have succumbed to the anxiety, but this site is a testament to why I’m embarking on this adventure, pushing myself beyond my comfort zone. With that, I found a reasonable ticket and swiftly filled out my information before my anxiety could conjure up another excuse to postpone.

From Decision to Commitment

Et voila! Puerto Rico here I come! Getting the ticket didn’t magically erase my fears and doubts, but it did offer a gentle reassurance. The decision was made. Now it’s less of a choice and more of a commitment to navigate through any anxiety that arises because. I know I’m capable and strong enough to handle any bumps in the road, viewing each challenge as an opportunity to learn and grow for future travels!

Countdown to Adventure

While I’m still in the planning phase, I’m starting to feel the excitement build. The idea of stepping off a plane into the unknown and fully embarking on my solo trip is both thrilling and scary. Each day I spend exploring Puerto Rico will bring new challenges, yet it also holds the potential for magical discoveries and personal growth. This trip feels like a move away from my comfort zone and towards a more enriching and fulfilling life!

I’d love to hear your thoughts or first experiences with planning solo trips below!